July/August 2002
Some keep the Sabbath going to church; I keep it
staying at home; with a bobolink for a chorister, and an orchard for
a dome.
-Emily Dickinson
The Seventh Day
by Calvin O. Dame, minister, Unitarian Universalist Community
Church, Augusta, Maine
I grew up in a family whose life was bound up in the life of the church.
My parents were both ministers, and the rhythms of home were very much
the rhythms of the church: ingathering; Thanksgiving; Christmas; Easter,
and always Sunday morning.
When people hear that I was a preacher's kid, twice over, they sometimes
ask me with what seems to be a trace of pity, "Well, what was that
like, must have been pretty tough?"
I don't think it was so tough; like most children I assumed my life
was normal and other people's lives were odd. I thought our lives were
pretty special, and I usually felt kind of bad for people who didn't
get to move to a new church and a new town every couple of years.
But I know that behind the concerned question lies a thought that I
might have been brought up in an atmosphere of repression and restriction
and denial, that I might have been raised in a home where the practice
of religion was a matter of deprivation and limitation.
Well, that was never really the case, although the tradition in which
my parents came of age, the Salvation Army, was a tradition that found
expression more in opposition to the world than the Methodism in which
I was raised. There was no card playing or dancing during my parents'
youth, and I was in college before my mother ever used any more makeup
than a touch of lipstick.
There were a couple of restrictive holdovers from my parents' upbringing,
some smaller, some larger. For the longest time we never kept a pack
of regular playing cards in the house, a deck of Old Maid was about
it.
And, in the background, there were certain prohibitions regarding what
we could do on a Sunday, which was a day for church and for rest. For
instance, I never went to a movie on a Sunday until I was off to college
and beyond my parents' immediate supervision. And I never felt comfortable
sitting in a movie on a Sunday until I was a grown man and a long way
from home.
Sunday is the Sabbath, that is what I learned. I grew up with the remnants
of a restrictive religious practice that traces back through the demanding
and severe piety of early American Protestantism, all the way to the
Emperor Constantine. It was Constantine who, newly converted to Christianity,
decreed in the year 321 that all of the Roman Empire would observe Sunday
as the Sabbath with the suspension of work and business. And beyond
Constantine, the observance of the Sabbath traces back to Hebrew tradition.
One of the contributions of Judaism to the western world has been the
idea of Shabbos, or the Sabbath. It is from the sacred books of the
Jews, remember, that the familiar passage is taken: "So God blessed
the seventh day and hallowed it, because on it he rested from all his
work which he had done in creation." So, the week, with a Sunday
in it, is in large part a creation of Jewish culture. And the observance
of the Sabbath originates in Jewish tradition.
Jewish texts prohibit 39 specific acts during the Sabbath-acts traditionally
associated with the rebuilding of the temple in Jerusalem. If God could
rest in creating the universe, God's people could rest in the building
of the sacred temple. Tasks such as sowing, plowing, reaping, threshing,
and winnowing are prohibited, as are grinding, sifting, kneading, and
baking. Spinning and weaving, hunting and slaughtering, building, hammering,
and transporting are also prohibited.
Over time, as with all ecclesiastical precepts, Sabbath laws became
overly legalistic. The Jewish Sabbath could be so restrictive and morose
that, for some, it became a day of lethargy and depression rather than
a day for renewal, for sensuality and delight.
In fact, though it is sad to say so, for most of its history, most observers
of the Sabbath seem to have missed the point almost entirely.
Jesus said, "Man is not made for the Sabbath, but the Sabbath is
made for man." The point of the Sabbath was never to suspend all
activities so we could glumly sit around doing nothing. The point of
ceasing from all the usual activities and usual work is to take a rest
from the usual obligations and worries. With the time we gain, we are
to celebrate and appreciate the wonder and glory and beauty of the universe,
and the mystery of our presence in it.
Wayne Muller, in "Sabbath: Finding Rest, Renewal and Delight In
Our Busy Lives," his book on the Sabbath, quotes Rabbi Zalman Schacter-Shalomi
as saying, "Lots of people will swear allegiance to the Sabbath
and criticize those who do not keep all the Sabbath laws. But their
inner experience is not one of spaciousness and delight. It is too easy
to talk of prohibition, but the point of the space and time created
is to say yes to the sacred, to spirituality, sensuality, sexuality,
prayer, rest, song, delight. It is not about legalism and legislation,
but about joy and the things that grow only in time."
He suggests that the appropriate way to begin the Sabbath is to simply
say, "Today I am going to pamper my soul."
Well, that is a whole different way of looking at the Sabbath. Growing
up, I can't say that I ever really got this idea in the way that Wayne
Muller presents it. The point of the Sabbath is to take a break from
our busyness in order to look up, to stop, to pause, to cease from doing,
to rest, to renew, to taste and to savor and to celebrate, to make love
with our partners, to gather our family around, to take a moment to
exhale before we inhale our next breath.
It would take no great genius on my part to observe that for most of
us, the demands of our lives seem nearly overwhelming. Ask just about
anybody in our congregation how they are doing, and you are most likely
to hear, "I am busy. I am so busy!"
Many of us are busy. Work, school, children, houses, cars, phones, television,
computers, church, travel, hobbies, gardens, politics, entertainment,
sports, self-improvement-you name it, we are doing it.
Even in retirement, many of us cannot seem to shake loose the internal
or external demands that keep us so occupied. Ask anyone, and you will
get the same report; "I am so busy."
We are not made to be this busy.
It is not healthy, it weakens families, it puts barriers between us
and other people, it dilutes and weakens the community that we so often
say we want, it puts blinders on our eyes and robs us of the rich vision
of the world we live in.
We know this. I don't think this sermon is going to be startling news
to anyone reading it. And yet, even when the outside demands upon our
time and our attention slacken, many of us sign up for more, or take
on more, or increase the pace, or commit to something new. Why is this?
For starters, Western culture doesn't approve of idleness. "Idle
hands do the devil's work," my grandmother used to say. And she
was just speaking her version of a strong cultural norm.
And then there is the question of what we might discover if we were
to stop. Another folk aphorism goes, "Don't look back-something
may be gaining on you!" Some of us, I think, may actually be a
little nervous about what might be gaining on us if we cease the constant
pursuit of both work and entertainment.
And then there is the perpetual pressure in some cultures to achieve
and to acquire. Society may judge people by what they have and what
they do. People who choose reflection and experience over achievement
are given dismissive labels: dreamer, ne'er-do-well, aging hippie.
Muller describes another powerful force that works to prevent our taking
the time we need for rest and renewal: many of us think we cannot rest
until we get everything done. He writes that, "There is astounding
wisdom in the traditional Jewish Sabbath, that it begins precisely at
sundown, whether that comes at a wintry 4:30 or late on a summer evening.
Sabbath is not dependent on our readiness to stop. We do not stop when
we are finished. We do not stop when we complete our phone calls, finish
our project, get through this stack of messages, or get out this report
that is due tomorrow. We stop because it is time to stop."
"Sabbath," Muller continues, "requires surrender. If
we only stop when we are finished with all our work, we will never stop-because
our work is never completely done. With every accomplishment there arises
a new responsibility. Every swept floor invites another sweeping; every
child bathed invites another bathing. When all of life moves in such
cycles, what is ever finished? The sun goes 'round, the moon goes 'round,
the tides and seasons go 'round, people are born and die, and when are
we finished? If we refuse to rest until we are finished, we will never
rest until we die. Sabbath dissolves the artificial urgency of our days,
because it liberates us from the need to be
finished."
Muller continues, "The old, wise Sabbath says: Stop now. As the
sun touches the horizon, take the hand off the plow, put down the phone,
let the pen rest on the paper, turn off the computer, leave the mop
in the bucket, and the car in the drive. There is no room for negotiation,
no time to be seduced by the urgency of our responsibilities. We stop
because there are forces larger than we that take care of the universe,
and while our efforts are important, necessary, and useful, they are
not, nor are we, indispensable."
So, if we know that our lives are too busy, and we know that taking
the time to take time is both healthy and enriching, and we know that
nobody else is going to fix this for us, we're going to have to do it
ourselves, then how do we go about incorporating Sabbath time into our
lives? Sabbath time need not be a particular day of the week; it can
be any time intentionally set apart for rest and renewal. It is intentionally
finding the time for ourselves alone, or for being with our deepest
friends. It is taking time away from work to use for prayer or reflection
or walks or solitude.
The good news is that you can start small, it does not cost any money,
you can learn as you go, you can invite friends to join you if that
is the best process for you. But you have to do it. And you have to
do it on purpose. You have to be intentional.
You can sit each day for five minutes, or for ten. Just sit.
You can write in a book any thought that occurs to you as you sit.
You can walk, or most of us can walk.
You can drive somewhere beautiful and be there for a few moments.
You can make a meal and eat it with care. You can invite friends over
to share the meal, and read a favorite poem before you eat.
You can select objects or memories or hopes and spend time with them
each day.
You can arrange a personal retreat.
You can listen to music.
You can rise early and listen to birds. And to the wind.
You can arrange to take time with your family each day to talk. Or call
someone that you can really talk with.
You can find ways to create, to engage your hands and eyes in a craft
or piece of art.
And most of all, you can decide not to be driven to distraction. You
can decide that you will take the time that you need to renew and restore
yourself, to do what you know will feed and revive your soul. If you
do not know what this is, you can decide to find out what will encourage
a sense of rest and well-being in you.
In "Sabbaths," by Wendell Berry, he says:
Whatever is foreseen in joy
Must be lived out from day to day.
Vision held open in the dark
By our ten thousand days of work.
Harvest will fill the barn; for that
The hands must ache, the face must sweat.
And yet no leaf or grain is filled
By work of ours; the field is tilled
And left to grace. That we may reap,
Great work is done while we're asleep.
When we work well, a Sabbath mood
Rests on our day, and finds it good.
Sabbath is the time when we might lie fallow, and be renewed and restored.
We are not made for the Sabbath, rather, the Sabbath is made for us!
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From
Your Minister
by Rev. Jane Ranney Rzepka, minister, CLF
Rub-a-dub-dub, drenched tourists in a tub. The newest sensation
at theme parks is: getting wet. Thousand of customers line
up each day to ride the rapids on concrete rivers and disembark
flaunting their soggy T-shirts as badges of honor.
"
Market research shows that this is what the guests
want," said Rick Roberts, the director of corporate communications
at HERSHEY PARK, where 'Canyon River Rapids' opened. "If
people don't get soaking wet, they complain."
Rapids rides can cost from $2 million to $10 million, depending
on how much grading of the site is required and how much money
a park wants to spend on landscaping and design to increase
the sense of
fantasy.
But sometimes people get more water than they bargained for.
At AstroWorld in Houston, where the first American rapids
ride had just been installed, 12 of the top executives from
the Six Flags corporation stepped into a tub for a preview.
"The boat got stuck under the waterfall," explained
the executive vice-president of the company that designs and
builds rapids rides. "Water was pouring by the ton over
those men in $800 suits and Gucci shoes. They all rode home
in the first-class section of an airplane wearing park maintenance
uniforms."
Aljean Harmetz
New York Times |
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You have a month-long vacation and all the money in the world. Your
assignment is to enjoy yourself, to spend those 30 days in such a way
that at the end you can say you felt happy. OK, maybe it's only a Wednesday
evening and loose change from your pockets, but still, could you find
a way to spend the evening happily? Summertime often presents the prospect
of happiness: the memorable vacation trip, homework-free evenings with
the kids, a hiatus from the heating bills, daylight more the way you'd
like it. Not to mention the sweet corn, peach ice cream, and whatever-it-is
that you've tossed on the grill. So the pressure's on-it's time to be
happy. Happiness. How do we get it? The quandary about how to spend
a summer vacation or an available Wednesday evening can quickly morph
into what we'd do if we won the lottery, or more poignantly, how we'd
spend the remaining time if we knew we had six months to live. Before
we know it we've become existential, pondering the meaning of life and
how best to live it. What is a worthy life, a satisfying life, a good
life? What is a happy life? The champ, of course, when it comes to asking
these questions, is Ecclesiastes, in the Hebrew Bible. He wonders what
the point is: "I, the Speaker, ruled as king over Israel in Jerusalem;
and in wisdom I applied my mind to study and explore all that is done
under heaven. It is a sorry business that God has given us to busy ourselves
with. I have seen all the deeds that are done here under the sun; they
are all emptiness and chasing the wind." Cultures, families, and individual
people each find their answers in the face of the emptiness and wind-chasing.
Maybe you were taught that job security was the key to a good life,
or a close-knit family is all that counts, or charity work, or healthy
food and exercise. Maybe for you it's playing the drums with old high
school friends that makes the difference, or hiking the Appalachian
Trail, or working night and day for a tutoring program, or finding regular
Sabbath time. More likely, it's a combination of things that offer us
a satisfying life. A balance. A sense of proportion. Getting soaked
on theme park rides can only make a person so happy before it's time
to dry off and write that letter to the editor, help your nephew build
a tool shed, or finish up the lesson plans for the fourth and fifth
graders. By then it may be past time to kiss somebody you love, scrub
out the really quite disgusting bathtub, dance a jig, tend the baby,
change the oil, or put the coffee on. Or hunt for a new job that seems
worth doing, or retrieve a relationship from wherever it's gone, or
write the poetry before it's too late, or finally register for classes.
Some of a meaningful life is the big stuff and some of it's little;
some of it's a passing fancy and some of it's in deadly earnest; some
of it doesn't amount to much in the end and some of it turns out to
count for something-and we don't always know in advance which will be
which. I do know this. The broad outlines of life bear thinking about.
Talk shows, self-help articles, sermons, friends and relatives-they
can all offer advice about how busy you should or shouldn't be, how
much time you should spend alone or in the company of others, how much
you do or do not deserve, and yes, exactly what you need to do to be
happy. But of course, in the end, the job of thinking it through is
yours. Personally, I love a good water ride-even the planned surprise
of a splash in the face. Does it make me happy? Sure. Does it make for
a happy life? That's another question.
Jane Rzepka
Minister
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REsources for Living
by Betsy Hill Williams, Director of Religious Education, CLF
Often when I finish reading a book, I like to talk about it. So I joined
a book group. I don't always get the month's assignment finished on
time, and I don't always like the books we read. But I almost always
benefit from the discussion and I've also gotten to know a group of
people in ways I never would have if our encounters had been limited
to the soccer field.
I'd like to suggest that CLFers start book groups. It's not as far-fetched
as it sounds, thanks to the Internet and to a new series called Beacon
Press Discussion Guides for Unitarian Universalist Communities. At the
time of this writing, guides are available for 11 Beacon Press books.
They are available online or in printed form with a purchase of the
book from the UUA Bookstore. Each guide includes brief readings and
questions for reflection and discussion in two, three, or four sessions.
As always, the authors suggest that groups adapt the material to fit
their unique situations-nothing new to CLFers! As I read through the
guides, I found that most will require little adaptation to make them
useful tools for online discussion. And the list of books in the program
is wonderfully varied, both in topic and style.
Glancing down the list, I was immediately drawn to a 1979 novel, Kindred,
by Octavia Butler. It's a story of a contemporary black woman, married
to a white man, who is repeatedly transported through time and space
to the antebellum South to rescue her ancestor-a white slave owner.
Now I've never been a fan of science fiction or time travel, but Butler's
concern in this book isn't about how this happened. It's about what
happened to all members of slaveholding families and communities-black
and white-and how powerfully we are tied to the lives of our ancestors.
During the past 10 years of anti-racism programs and initiatives at
the UUA, I (like many other UUs) have struggled to understand the effect
of past racism and contemporary white privilege on my identity. What
is the legacy of slavery for me? For my family and friends? Kindred
offers a unique, 20th century "experience" of 19th century
slavery, which raises many provocative questions about racism then and
now.
Ironically, just last week a CLFer asked me if I thought other CLFers
saw this congregation as a place one can turn to in times of life crises.
How can we support each other through adversity the way congregations
do when they meet regularly and know one another personally? With this
challenge for CLF fresh on my mind, I read Lifelines, by Forrest Church,
another book in the Beacon Discussion Guide series. "Everyone suffers,"
states Church, "but not everyone despairs. Despair is a consequence
of suffering only when affliction cuts us off from others. It need not."
As an isolated UU, you may find yourself feeling cut off from others
when adversity and suffering strike. We need to create as many opportunities
as possible for each other to both throw out new lifelines and hold
tight to lifelines through crises great and small. "The most important
thing to remember," Church writes, "is that lifelines have
two ends. To grasp one end, however tightly, avails us nothing unless
the other end is secured. Unless we reach out to and for others, seeking
meaning not in our own suffering but in our shared experience of the
human condition, our lifelines will not hold." The sensitive discussion
guide prepared by Nancy Palmer Jones is surely one such opportunity
for a small group of CLFers.
How to start a CLF Book GroupTake a look at the list of books for which
discussion guides are available. If you are on the CLF-L or CLF-RE e-mail
list, you might start by asking if there are others on the list that
would like to read and discuss one of the books that interests you.
If you are not on one of CLF's electronic lists, e-mail me at bwilliams@uua.org
and I will post your request on the lists for you.
With the names and e-mail addresses of a few people, you can either
set up a distribution list on your computer (so all correspondence goes
to all members of the group), or you can set up a separate address for
your group, using a free service like Yahoo groups (www.yahoogroups.com)
or MSN Communities (www.msn.com). Some
people find it easier to track conversation that is posted on a group
site than to receive it in their daily e-mail.
Once the mode of communication is established, group members buy the
book from the UUA Bookstore (CLF members receive a 20 percent discount)
and either download the discussion guide (www.beacon.org)
or ask for a copy from the bookstore. You could also simply read each
section online as the discussion
progresses.
It will probably work best to have a group convener who sets the pace
and moves the group along from session to session in the discussion
guide. Please consider sharing your book group experience with the CLF
staff so we can evaluate this method of adult religious education and
community building.
Beacon books in this series:
Common Fire: Leading Lives of Commitment in a Complex World,
by Laurent A. Parks, Cheryl H. Keen, James P. Keen and Sharon Daloz
Parks.
Fist Stick Knife Gun: A Personal History of Violence in America,
by Geoffrey Canada.
What Is Marriage For?: The Strange Social History of Our Most Intimate
Institution, by E. J. Graff.
The Force of Spirit, by Scott Russell Sanders.
Waist High in the World: A Life Among the Nondisabled, by Nancy
Mairs.
Taking Retirement: A Beginner's Diary, by Carl H. Klaus.
The Students are Watching: Schools and the Moral Contract, by
Theodore R. Sizer and Nancy Faust Sizer.
Kindred, by Octavia Butler.
A Chosen Faith, by John A. Buehrens and Forrest Church.
Lifecraft: The Art of Meaning in the Everyday, by Forrest
Church.
Life Lines, by Forrest Church.
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Spiritual Reflections
from a Thru hike
by Roderick Forsman, member, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
of the Eastern Slopes, Conway, New Hampshire
What follows is an excerpt from Roderick Forsman's sermon about
his experience last spring and summer hiking the Appalachian Trail.
Within 15 to 20 minutes of getting underway each morning, my body went
into autopilot mode, much as yours does when you are driving on the
Interstate. In that mode, you can converse or think without allocating
much conscious attention at all to the road. It is difficult for me
to describe the meditative states in which I spent countless hours experiencing
awe, wonder, and a strong sense of the sacred. These states were spiritual-experienced
without words-that is, without any conscious verbalizing or narrating
to myself. And so, they were not stored away in verbal form like some
kind of textual recording.
I had totally forgotten until the other night, when I was talking with
a couple of friends, an experience that I now remember happened repeatedly:
I was on the Trail. I would become aware that I had stopped in my tracks
and was just standing there, sensing, soaking in the whole surround
of Nature, and feeling intensely that I was in a holy place. The sense
of the Sacred left me half expecting something unusual to happen, and
half expecting the totally ordinary to continue. And here is a key point-I
had not stopped to rest or to have a snack. I was neither out of breath,
nor fatigued, nor hungry nor thirsty. Quite the contrary, as I gradually
became aware of how I was feeling in that emerging moment, I felt filled
with spirit, rested and energetic. It required no courage to be happy.
The moment felt like a prayer.
The first few times this happened, I felt surprised to discover myself
standing quietly for no obvious reason. On subsequent occurrences I
became less and less surprised. I was not usually wearing a watch while
hiking, so I had no way to time the duration of these experiences. I
wouldn't even have thought of timing them. I suspect that my stopping
was to terminate being distracted by all the sensory feedback from muscles,
tendons, and joints. I think that I must have stopped to experience
the sacredness of that moment, the holiness of where I was, both in
the sense of a physical place of beauty and a spiritual place of joy.
I am not embarrassed to tell you that the deep sense of being at peace
sometimes brought tears of joy.
As I have reflected on these spiritual experiences, I have come to know
that the inchoate feeling that I was on holy ground is one I have never
experienced on pavement or concrete. Indeed, I have never experienced
it when surrounded by the so-called "man-made world." As astounded
and awed as I was when I visited the Cathedral of Notre Dame in Paris,
I did not feel on holy ground there. For me, Nature has the greatest
power to evoke spirituality. "Through the earth I am aware of what
I am." I have come to understand that I spent a lot of my autopilot
time in prayer. My praying was nonverbal. It was a stilling of the mind
before the awesome beauty of the creation I walked into and through.
It was a state of attentiveness to the rocks and roots that communicated
to me through my feet and legs.
My praying was welcoming the darkness itself that silently gave me permission
to give my body up to sleep. It was greeting the sunrise that put darkness
aside, a sunrise often not seen but still fully known in spite of the
dense cloud surrounding my tent.
My praying was the awareness of being loved by a woman over a thousand
miles away, of being loved by four children no longer children, of being
loved by my Unitarian Universalist friends, my religious home at home.
My religious home away from home is anywhere in nature.
My praying was ravishing a steak and cold beer in a trail town. It was
shivering under a cold shower in a hostel where the water heater had
quit.
Nonverbal praying is direct, private, unpretentious, and vigorously
honest. It is simply the opening up of the heart to the sacred. And
so much of what is sacred is close at hand, "ordinary," familiar,
and alas, unrecognized as sacred.
One only knows the Sacred is there by opening up to it. To do that,
we must change how we relate to the immediate world around us. We must
allow the intuitive impulse to replace the rational verbal concept.
We must resist the urge to name everything we experience, or even to
know its name. We must nurture awareness of simply being.
The poet Mary Oliver made this observation, "Every morning the
world is created." Think of it! We awaken, and discover that we
have been given the gift of another day. We look around and see that
"Each pond with its blazing lilies is a prayer [already] heard
and answered lavishly, every morning, whether or not you ever dared
to be happy, whether or not you have ever dared to pray."
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The Perfectly Useless Afternoon
by Kirk Loadman-Copeland, minister, UU Church of the South Hills,
Mt. Lebanon, Pennsylvania
If you can spend a perfectly useless afternoon in a perfectly useless
manner, you have learned how to live.
Lin Yutang
By Lin Yutang's definition, too few of us have learned how to live.
We are intent on usefulness, on filling all our time with purposeful
activities, on doing or making things. We use sophisticated planners
to make the most of our time. And many of our children have schedules
that are just as imposing as our own. (My own childhood was absolutely
boring by comparison and I still treasure it.) Anne Morrow Lindbergh
wrote, "Too many people, too many demands, too much to do; competent,
busy, hurrying people-it just isn't living at all."
Some suggest that this is a contemporary problem, shaped by urbanization,
technology, mass society, and rapid social change; Alan Toffler's "future
shock" in the present tense. Consider, however, George Sand's complaint,
written in 1863, "Time is always wanting to me, and I cannot meet
with a single day when I am not hurried along, driven to my wit's-end
by urgent work, business to attend to, or some service to
render."
Chuang Tzu, a Taoist sage who lived during the fourth century BCE, wrote,
"Produce! Get results! Make money! Make friends! Make changes!
Or you will die of despair." Lest you misinterpret his point, he
was contemptuous of such activity as a means of averting despair. Is
our busyness an attempt to keep despair at bay or is it simply an active
manifestation of despair itself?
Our words, "I'm busy, too busy," seldom contain a sense of
well-being or joy about our busyness. Rather they are a mantra for being
overwhelmed or burned-out. (Sometimes the mantra becomes inarticulate,
reduced to a sigh.) When these words issue forth by way of explanation
or complaint, we should pause to explore precisely what we mean. What
motivates our desperate haste? What is absent in our life? Are we in
need of deep rest or renewal? Are the actions of our outer life so disconnected
from our inner life that we are constantly weary? Have we been seduced
by activity for its own sake with little consideration for the meaning
or the value of activity? Or do we believe that busyness confirms significance,
importance? Regardless of its cause, our busyness effectively numbs
us to need or desire and allows us to avoid our inner life and whatever
suffering our outer life inflicts upon us. Busyness can become a metaphor
for our life, or more appropriately, our lack of life.
The poet May Sarton advises us to seek "time, with no obligations
except toward the inner world and what is going on there." Former
UUA president William Schulz offers us "encouragement to look beyond
the busyness of the everyday into the eye of life's blessings."
He writes, "If you are like me, you are perpetually tempted to
substitute weariness for wonder, to miss the magnificent in the midst
of the mundane. But before all else, religion calls us to be attentive,
to keep our eyes open..."
I have lost my desire to be busy. If wisdom could have come earlier
and at less cost, I would have avoided being busy altogether. It is
a chimera. This is not to say that I do not want to be active, involved,
challenged, engaged, or understandably tired at the end of a full day.
Busyness, however, sabotages the pleasures of the active life. It ignores
the necessity for the "perfectly useless afternoon spent in a perfectly
useless manner." When we can afford to invest time in such a manner
without guilt, we begin to subdue the tyranny of busyness. Refusing
to be busy takes discipline. While it may involve doing less, it depends
on "doing" differently. The discipline involves shifting our
attention from what we do to who we are, from doing to being. It also
requires a willingness to be at peace with the limitations that shape
our being and the realities of time. When we intentionally leave busyness
behind we become free to pursue the art of living. This includes the
perfectly useless afternoon as both a gift and a blessing.
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How Do We Grow?
by Henry David Thoreau
There were times when I could not afford to
sacrifice the bloom of the present moment to any work, whether of the
head or the hands. I love a broad margin to my life. Sometimes, in a
summer morning, having taken my accustomed bath, I sat in my sunny doorway
from sunrise till noon, rapt in a revelry, amidst the pines and hickories
and sumacs, in undisturbed solitude and stillness, while the birds sang
around or flitted noiseless through the house, until by the sun falling
in at my west window, or the noise of some traveler's wagon on the distant
highway I was reminded of the lapse of time. I grew in those seasons
like corn in the night, and they were far better than any work of the
hands would have been. They were not time subtracted from my life, but
so much over and above my usual allowance.
From Thoreau as Spiritual Guide, Barry M. Andrews, Skinner House,
Boston, 2000. It can be purchased at the UUA Bookstore or borrowed from
the CLF library.
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On-line Course Goes Where No One Has Gone Before
A new on-line, intergenerational religious
education course called "Star Trek Theology and Ethics for Humanists
and Religious Liberals," is now available to members and friends of
CLF. Come explore the ethical and theological ideals from the "Star
Trek" cosmos. Rus Cooper-Dowda, a member of CLF and a UU religious educator,
offers the on-line course to UUs of all ages. She says, "Gene Roddenberry,
the father of Star Trek, saw it as a political, social, racial, and
human philosophy. It is no surprise that he moved from his conservative
Texas roots to become a life-long humanist." The emphasis is on newly
released movies and television shows. That includes a weekly look at
new "Enterprise" episodes on the UPN network. "We look at commonly held
assumptions," Cooper-Dowda said, "through the eyes of a culture receiving
more and more information electronically, and having fewer and fewer
interpersonal connections. As we grow rapidly into this new cyber-culture,
we see that the immensely popular 'Star Trek' vision provides a rich
and abundant common language for political, social, racial, humanist,
and religious philosophies." To sign on for this e-mail course at your
own pace, contact Rus Cooper-Dowda at uudre@aol.com.
You can also sign up by going to: http://hometown.aol.com/uudre/myhomepage/hogwarts.html.
Can We Talk?
This fall, the Church of the Larger Fellowship is going to make a second
try at a new approach to funding its operating budget. We're going to
run a canvass phone-a-thon from the office in Boston. Here's how we're
going to make it happen. We will have a whole group of Unitarian Universalist
students from Harvard Divinity school sitting in the office for several
evenings calling CLF members all over the continent. We'd love to have
them talk to you. When we tried this briefly this past winter, many
members were very happy to talk to us. Actually, there's only one real
problem. We only have telephone numbers for about 50 percent of you
in our records! So, if you'd like to get a call from CLF as much as
we'd like to reach out and talk to you, here's how you can help. Just
get us your telephone number! You can fax, mail, telephone, or e-mail
your number to Lorraine Dennis at: CLF, 25 Beacon St., Boston MA 02108;
telephone: 617-948-6166; fax 617-523-4123; e-mail clf@uua.org.
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